Dear Koro Api,
You know that you always can't chose want you want you have to go with what life does. You know maybe kahu could be a good thing it's just that you don't know that.you could tell kahu the rules about chief meetings take her down to the beach on the boat in the afternoons and show kahu all the fish and try spot some whales i feel like in some meeting you could allow ladies to come to meetings but only the ones that talk about what they could do to help
He needs to be kind to kahu don't be mean to kahu
You could teach kahu the traditions you learnt when you were a kid